Marriage Advice:Who,why and how ?

Getting married and having fun are two different things. It is not halal to meet, talk to, talk to, talk to, meet secretly, or be friends with any foreign woman for fun and to spend time. This does no good for anyone. Even though such deeds are pleasant to the soul, they always end in trouble, harm and regret. When decency is violated, love loses its purity, affection is damaged, and the heart loses its peace. A scholar gives the following advice to young people regarding this issue: “My brothers! Maintain your manners until it's time to get married. Do not engage in haram. Haram is fire; no one can stand it. Ask for help from Almighty Allah and be patient. When the time comes and the conditions are ready, intend to get married to protect your chastity and honor. After that, ask God for a good share and search with decency to find that share. Meet and get to know each other properly. If your hearts connect, take the first step and bring the rest. Enter the home with marriage. If your hearts do not connect with the person you are meeting with and your language and tastes do not match, do not force yourself or the circumstances.